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Toronto’s fu-GEN theatre company offers unique online productions over Zoom

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Fu-gen artistic director David Yee in past production of 'Acquiesce' at the Factory Theatre

Toronto’s fu-GEN theatre company may have had their plans for a major festival performance in May scuttled by COVID-19, but they managed to pivot nimbly and adapt to the new circumstances by readying an experimental new online theatre piece. 

Online Joy Edit is a series of intimate one-on-one interactions taking place online over various communications channels. It premiered on April 2 and continues today and tomorrow. 

Most interactions will happen over the video conferencing app Zoom. 

Options for the one-on-one performances include everything from a mad scientist constructing a joy machine and a dance journey to dramatic candlelight readings to a duet with a 12-year-old from the past to the tune of Queen’s “Bohemian Rhapsody.”

Surprisingly, it’s something that was already in the works for next season. 

“The oddly prescient thing is that we’ve actually had this on the books for a while, and we were supposed to do it next season,” says artistic director David Yee. “When the stay home measures started going into effect, we decided to get an early start.” 

As Yee explains, fu-GEN has always been a traditional theatre company for the most part, but every now and then, they like to experiment. 

“It started in 2010 with Sex Tape Project which isolated actors in a hotel, performing the physical actions of a play, while the audience was across the street with binoculars, watching,” he says. “Each audience member listened over headphones to one of three distinct audio plays that were possible interpretations of what was happening in the hotel, all matching the same physical action.”

 Last year, fu-GEN ran another experiment in Markham called Fearless. It was created to reach Asian Canadian communities in the suburbs who don’t travel to the downtown core in Toronto to see theatre.  

“Our response was to create one-on-one immersive theatre pieces that happened between one performer and one audience member in the audience member’s car while they drove,” Yee says. “We developed an app that functioned like Uber in reverse, where drivers could select and book passengers, but those passengers were artists waiting to start a very immersive and intimate short performance.”

A similar principle is at play with the new production Online Joy Edit 

“What we learned from Fearless was that people are super scared of letting a stranger into their car. That’s understandable,” Yee says. “What if we went in the totally opposite physical direction while maintaining the intimacy and immersion that you get with one-on-one performance? That’s what led us to Online Joy Edit.”

Each encounter in the new production is unique, and the requirements of the audience members also change based on which they choose to do. 

“If you choose Maddie Bautista, you are signing up to sing “Bohemian Rhapsody” with her. Not just a section, not just the Wayne’s World bit, the whole song.” Yee says. “Natalie Gan will read you cringe-worthy blog posts she wrote when she was between the ages of 17 and 24 while playing the emo songs she was listening to while she wrote them.” 

One of the more unique productions is from Vienna Hehir, which is a duo with a well-known Italian fashion photographer Luigi Ceccon, who is quarantined in his apartment just outside of Rome. 

“Vienna will ask the audience member questions about their most joyful moment or memory, and Luigi will — using only what’s available in his apartment — create a unique and personal photographic impression of that audience member’s joy,” Yee explains. “I mean, that’s what artists do: we create a physical or aesthetic thing for you to attach meaning to.”

Although the production is certainly non-traditional it is definitely theatre in that it attempts to make audience members feel something, to take them somewhere. All that it requires in return is a willingness to let go. 

“I think the best thing anyone can do is to come to it with no expectations,” Yee says. “There’s nothing to prepare and no way to do it correctly or a way to do it best. Just come and be your most authentic self. That’s how the magic happens.”

To book an Online Joy Edit experience head to the fu-GEN website

What you should know about TikTok now that your kids are spending so much time on it

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Rowan J. Chetner is our kids columnist who focuses on Toronto teens. Chetner is a Grade 11 student at a local high school. 

By now, you’ve definitely heard of TikTok — the app that has taken over teen lives. And with schools closed and all activities cancelled for the foreseeable future, chances are your kids are spending a lot of time on this app.

But what exactly is TikTok and why are young people obsessed with it? And is it safe for teens to be using? Don’t fret parents: I’m here to tell you what you need to know.

TikTok is a social media app that features a variety of videos that can be no longer than one minute. The videos (called TikToks) feature comedy sketches, people voicing their opinions or making jokes, and the famous TikTok dances. TikTokers make dances to short audio clips, share them, and people pick them up, copying their fellow TikTokers or adding their own twist.

Videos from people your teen follows, videos from popular creators, and videos getting a lot of likes, comments or shares appear on the For You page of the app, which is a curation of an endless stream of TikToks.   

So parents, now that you know what is so mesmerizing about TikTok, let’s address some of the concerns. You may be worried about your teen being plastered all over the Internet.

Ensure your teen’s account is private so they have control over who sees their videos. If an account is private, they can accept or deny the people who want to view their TikToks. Their TikToks will also never appear on the For You page, eliminating the chance of them becoming TikTok famous.

If your teens refuse to make their account private, you should have a frank talk with them about the dangers of giving strangers access to their videos.

Another issue that worries many parents is the sexualization of their teenagers. Many people on TikTok dress in revealing clothes, obviously a source of concern for parents. Again, discuss this with your teen. Chat with them about what is appropriate attire, the importance of keeping their account private and the consequences of sexualizing themselves online.

Another issue that can arise is time management. Of course, if your teens are scrolling the app for hours, that is a problem, and you should talk to them about limiting screen time.

Worries aside, it’s important to remember that TikTok is a way for teens to express themselves. The problems the app brings are not unlike any other social media platform, and the same privacy measures should be taken.

For parents who are unsure how to have these conversations, my advice is to make it personal. I would want my parents to tell me about their own experiences. Did you ever neglect to protect your privacy and suffer the consequences? Tell me about it. Explain that you don’t want this to happen to me. But in the end, empower me: Tell me I’m smart and capable of making the right decision, and that you are confident that I will.

20 perfectly normal child and parent behaviours during a pandemic

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Cat and Nat tackle motherhood with wit and wisdom. Find them at catandnat.ca or @catandnat.

If you have a kid, you’re a mom. And if you’re a mom, you might be rethinking your decision since the pandemic hit. We are here to let you know what normal behaviour for your children is, if you are sitting there wondering, “WTF did I get myself into?”

Due to school closures and social distancing protocols, you are finally spending more than an hour at a time with your kids. Which means you’ve probably thought to yourself, “I had no idea how terrible my kid was!”

Well, chances are that your terrible kid is just a normal kid, here’s how to be sure. (Note: this list only applies to moms, not dads.) Here is our list of 20 child (and parent) behaviours that are entirely normal.

1. Personal space does not exist in their world. They have a magnetic connection to you and need to be really close to you at all times. They are sitting on you, on top of you, looking at you, breathing on you and they don’t move.

2. They are standing in the kitchen, with their father, but decide to come up to your bedroom to ask if they can have a glass of water.

3. You ask them a simple question such as, “What are you doing?” and they respond with, “You don’t understand me!” And then you think to yourself, “How can my child be so psychotic one minute and then normal the other?”

4. If you have more than one child and you constantly hear them telling each other, “I hate you.”

5. You make them a meal, and they refuse to eat it. But they also spend the rest of the day complaining that they are hungry and require you to give them an endless stream of snacks.

6. They say the word, “Mom” 4,000 times per hour.

7. They ask you daily what they will be doing today and you explain to them for the thousandth time that they are doing nothing. We are all doing nothing! And they respond with, “But what are we doing today?” They cannot get it into their heads.

8. They spend the entire day sitting in front of a screen no matter how many times you tell them to, “Get off the f***ing screen!”

9. They take their clothes off and leave them all over the house. It’s absolutely crazy that they can’t just keep their clothes in their rooms, but somehow this is normal behaviour.

10. When you have another adult in your house who is staying home due to the pandemic and is not accustomed to it and they ask questions like, “Why are the kids so messy?” They have always been messy, you are just never here to see it!

11. They are so loud that your brain rattles. And the adult (usually your spouse) that you don’t usually spend much time with but now have to because you are quarantined together asks, “Why are the kids talking into a microphone?”

12. Your kid makes a not-so-nice comment and your partner asks you, “How did we raise such rude kids?” Rude? RUDE?! Rude is asking me why our kids are rude.

13. They tell you daily how excited they are about not having school, even though the reason for this is a global pandemic.

14. They never flush the toilet. It’s like they want to show off what they left in the bowl. Like they are steaming their poop. Even at nine years old! Flush the damn toilet!

15. Their hygiene is questionable. You’re constantly asking them to brush their teeth. Sometimes you have to bribe them just to take a shower.

16. They are five years old, but you still have to wipe their bums when they take a poop. When does this stop? How long do I have to double check that they’ve adequately wiped their bum? There’s going to be some skid marks, it’s going to be okay.

17. You completely gave up on making meals at about day five of social distancing.

18. You happened to find five empty bottles of wine in your garbage this morning.

19. You tend to hide in your car while your kids are inside. You have nowhere to go, so you are just sitting in the car.

20. You have started swearing in the house.

By the way, your kids have always been like this. You just haven’t spent this much time at home with them with no school, no activities, no outings and no escape. These are extraordinary circumstances and normally we have something to do. Right now, we have nothing to do but stay home.

And you have to just keep staying home. So yes, your kids will drive you crazy. But know that you are normal, your kids are normal and you got this. Good luck to all the moms, we feel your pain. Stay safe.

Gourmet restaurant food suppliers are now delivering directly to consumers

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COVID-19 has had a ripple effect on the restaurant industry, not only impacting restaurant staff and owners but everyone who normally does business with them. With dining rooms shuttered across the city, the food suppliers that normally stock restaurant kitchens are seeing their usual orders decrease significantly or disappear entirely. 

Like restaurants, food suppliers are adapting their business models to the current climate and many are shifting to direct consumer sales. It’s giving us a rare opportunity to stock our fridges with restaurant-quality goods, as well as help keep suppliers afloat until we’re all dining out again.

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Stratford’s much-loved cheesemaker has launched a home delivery program they’re dubbing “door-to-door dairy.” Monforte Dairy‘s new service features boxes filled with 1.5 kg of assorted hard and soft cheese. Boxes are priced at $60 and are delivered for free every Friday in Toronto (delivery is also available in Stratford, London, and Kitchener-Waterloo). Orders can be placed by calling or texting 519-301-0198.

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Veteran supplier 100km Foods helped pioneer the local food movement in Toronto by bringing seasonal Ontario farm produce to hundreds of restaurants across the city. They’ve now debuted a series of pre-packed Market Boxes for home cooks, which are filled with goods sourced from their network of farmers and producers. Boxes can be ordered online and picked up from their warehouse at 19 Colville Road. In addition to this pick-up box program, 100km Food has also partnered with Fruit Suite to offer home delivery of their products.

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Oakville-based wholesaler Woodward Meats has opened up its sought-after supply to the public. Their stock focuses on premium meat cuts like A5 Wagyu boneless rib-eye steak, but fresh fruits and veggies are available to order as well. They’ve also partnered with some of their restaurant clients to offer ready-made meals, such as Buca’s Lasagna da Cucinare a Casa. Orders can be placed online and picked up from North York’s Miller Tavern or Woodward’s Oakville facility, but they seem poised to add additional pick-up locations in the coming weeks.

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Daily Seafood is offering home delivery and pick up of its fresh and frozen seafood products, which range from trout and tuna to mussels and lobster. They’re also selling marinades like garlic dill and maple dijon, with the option to order your fish marinated and shipped in an oven-ready container. Customers can email or call Daily Seafood to get a current list of what they have in stock and place orders. There’s a minimum $50 purchase for pick-ups and $150 for deliveries. 

Toronto real estate experts weigh in on how to navigate today’s market

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The real estate market in Toronto may have slowed down in the last few days due to COVID-19, but that doesn’t mean its come to a complete halt. These Toronto Experts provide insight into how they’re navigating today’s market.

Gillian Oxley & Joseph Robert, Sales Representative and Broker

How do you prepare for an open house during the COVID-19 pandemic?

Given the change in climate as we all adjust to the new situation and need to distance from one another, we are working from a virtual platform first – relying on video conferencing and virtual property tours – ironically we have sold close to a dozen homes in the past via FaceTime and a property walk-through so we know this can be effective.  New listings are coming out daily, and with current mortgage rate incentives, buyers are considering more options.

What is your take on the current state of the real estate market in Toronto?

Traditionally, the Spring market is the busiest time of the year.  Given the current health crisis with COVID-19 the market is undergoing change and we won’t know until we look back how the Spring real estate market will perform.  That said, there are still clients who need or want to buy and/or sell during this unique time and we are helping our clients navigate through a sound purchase or sale guided by our strong understanding of the market and their best interests in mind.

OxleyRobert Real Estate • 124 Merton St. Suite 102 • 416.495.2939  • @OxleyrobertRE

Elli Davis, Sales Representative

What makes one agent more effective than the others during the COVID-19 pandemic?

An effective agent is one who is efficient, provides responses in a timely manner and keeps communication open with clients, other agents and tradespeople. They have a thorough understanding of the neighbourhoods they work in and are well informed on how different properties compare with others. They also utilize new technology and strategy to keep ahead of the curve.

What is the first thing you do for a buyer you are representing vs. a seller you are representing?

When I first speak with Buyers I qualify their “what, when, where and why”! We discuss their personal needs and wants to prepare a detailed wish list to begin the search. With Sellers I like to begin with an initial visit of their property. During this meeting we will determine their timeline to use as a guideline to set a plan in motion. I will also suggest how to enhance and present their property to its best advantage.

Royal LePage Real Estate Services Ltd., Brokerage • 55 St. Clair Avenue West • 416.921.1112 •  [email protected]

Cherri Dorsey McCann, Broker of Record

What makes one agent more effective than others?

I believe the dialogue between an agent and their client needs to be honest and open. It is important to communicate and follow up throughout the entire process. Also provide the client with current and relevant information. Agents need to always protect their client, and look beyond the current transaction.

What is your advice for first time buyers during the COVID-19 pandemic?

Be organized, like having your finances in order and funds ready to deposit. Know what you can afford. Having a dollar amount in your head when you are looking at houses will not help you realistically look at your options. The right one will come along, and you will be pleased when you get it. You will know when it is the home for you!

McCann Realty Group Ltd. Brokerage • 3307 Yonge Street • 416.481.2355 • [email protected]

Debbie Penzo, Real Estate Agent

What makes one agent more effective than others?

Every agent, whether individual or team, is operating like a small business and entrepreneur — you have to be strategic, collaborative, opportunity-driven, and move quickly. For us, a team has enabled us to focus on the main pillars of our business very efficiently: customer service, sales and marketing, and the financials.

What is your best advice for first time home buyers?

To be open to neighbourhoods they may not have considered. We recommend that our first time home buyers not shy away from exploring neighbourhoods that weren’t initially on their radar. We have many families who have purchased in Riverdale who weren’t looking there initially.

Chestnut Park Real Estate/Christie’s International Real Estate • 416.520.1828

Quarantine reads: Five great books from Bif Naked

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Bif Naked is an iconic Canadian rock star and something of a spiritual guru for those who follow her social media feeds. The first single “Jim” off her upcoming album is now out and she also has a book of poetry and cartoons coming soon called Razorblade Chewing Gum. Her spring tour is no longer, but we decided to check in to ask her to tell us about a few of the books she loves. 

Here are five books that matter to her:

The Whole Bloody Bird by Irving Layton

Canadian poet Irving Layton changed my life, after discovering him when I was 15 years old. This book was the first book I had ever stolen from my high school library, and only the second thing I have ever stolen in my entire life (the first being a small package of Wrigley’s Juicy Fruit Gum from a grocery store in The Pas, Manitoba, in 1977). This book, published in 1969, was the result of Layton’s journal keeping discipline mixed with poems, which he describes as his “1968 journal exploding into observations, aphorisms, and poems.” It blew my mind and sent me on my writing path for life. It is equal parts funny and moving, and I began collecting the works of Layton from this time, and currently own 29 of his books (32 if you count the ones I carelessly loaned to paramours). My Layton collection is all I wish to be buried with unless I donate them to a hospice library. I thank Irving Layton for my love of language, writing, and misadventure.

The Emperor of All Maladies by Dr. Siddhartha Mukherjee

When this book originally came out, in 2010, I was still experiencing much fallout from my own cancer treatments for breast cancer, which I was diagnosed with just three years before. My time as a cancer patient was transformational for me, as I became a hospital volunteer, a peer support volunteer, and a casual medical translator for my fellow chemo patients. I began to feel as though I missed my calling. Reading this elegantly written, riveting account of the history and biography of cancer was hugely meaningful to me. With this book, I reignited a joy of learning, and gleaned so much insight and inspiration surrounding cancer, its history, pathology, treatment protocol histories, and the practitioners of medicine. It is no wonder that Dr. Mukherjee won so many awards for this book! 

Don’t Let My Past Be Your Future by Harry Leslie Smith

Harry Leslie Smith was a freedom fighter. His life’s work and all his writing and calls to action should inform all of us. This book was a tremendous motivator for me, and I often use it as a reference when talking to my fellow social activist friends. Harry’s words always move me, despite my unfamiliarity with the British parliamentary activities and the election manifestos of the many players, and I always look to his activism as a benchmark. Harry Leslie Smith was fighting injustice long before the armchair activism of today’s social media whippersnappers became fashionable. His son, John, referred to his late dad as “the world’s oldest living rebel” and it’s perfect. 

Lost and Found by Sam Thiara

Sam Thiara’s story is true. He really did travel to India with only a faded photograph as his compass to find his grandfather’s village. Beautifully written, he takes us with him along the motorways, through crowded bazaars, into crowds praying at temples, and to the serene rural villages where he almost gives up his quest for the truth. Sam’s real victory is in the journey, and in turn, the reader champions him and rides the emotional roller coaster beside him. I loved this story so much, my praise for Sam Thiara’s book was included within the covers! I wrote, “Through his writing, I feel the very pulse of India’s heartbeat through Sam’s heart. In his search for his lost village, he actually finds himself. In this unbelievable story, along the way, I found myself, too.”

Living Your Yoga by Judith Lasater

Yoga has been a part of my life for more than 35 years, and it helped me stay connected to, what I felt was, my Indian birthright. Being born in New Delhi, and growing up as an adopted kid (and the only Canadian in my family) I had no stronger connection, culturally, than India. Despite my whiteness, in my childhood, I felt very Indian. As I grew up and matured, my rational thinking helped me understand my desires and needs for this cultural identity, and I would say that besides food and music, yoga was the greatest connection I found. Reading ancient texts like Bhagavad Gita and Yoga Sutras lay a foundation for my spiritual yoga practices, but Judith’s book, Living Your Yoga brought the spiritual into my everyday. From the time that I first read this book (around 2000) to the many times since that I re-read and enjoy every page, Living Your Yoga continues to be a marvellous guide to keep me delighted by the wonders of the everyday gratitude I can cultivate — on, and off, my yoga mat. 

The Second City couple putting on an improv show from their home

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Paul Bates and Christy Bruce on their wedding day

In times of despair, a little bit of comic relief tends to bring some much-needed happiness. Thankfully, The Second City is doing just that. All three locations are coming together (Toronto, Chicago and L.A.) for a live-streamed improv show called Improv House Party. The first show streams tonight.

The improv show will feature teams of married couples (who also happen to be Second City alumni) that are isolated together who will take suggestions online and create a Second City improv set. Some of the familiar Toronto faces you’ll see on the show are host Sandy Jobin Bevans, and couple Aurora Browne and Kris Siddiqi.

The other local couple in the show is Paul Bates, known for CTV’s Dan for Mayor, and Christy Bruce, known for The Handmaid’s Tale. We caught up with the pair to find out their backstory.

How they met

Paul: I’m not sure when Christy and I first met. But the first time I can remember us talking is when she was in Second City’s Touring Company and I was directing her for a corporate show. I am not above using my status for my own gain.

Christy: It was Second City, maybe 2001? The first time I remember seeing Paul was after I got hired for the touring company and snuck in to watch the mainstage show. Paul was doing a scene where he was playing Stephen Hawking and I thought to myself, “Who’s that smart, hilarious guy?” I don’t remember him directing me — I must have blocked that out of my memory for some reason. Bates, we need to talk about that!

The first date

Paul: It would have been around 2002. I think we saw Men With Brooms? It could only get better.

The courtship

Christy: It’s funny, we had all these locations downtown around Second City that were memories of our courtship but one by one they have all been torn down or changed hands. I think Wayne Gretzky’s is the only one left standing and that will be gone soon too. Oh, and the island of Corfu is still there. We took a trip to Corfu very early on in our relationship, it was a crash course in who we were. As they say, if you want to get to know someone — travel with them. You’re kind of forced to trust someone when you’re on the back of a scooter while they drive up a very narrow, very winding road to a house halfway up a mountain surrounded by people who don’t speak English.

The proposal

Paul: It was on a beach in Cuba! I had a ring, Christy had a kidney infection. Very romantic. Actually I thought it was going to be really romantic, because Christy had just lost her favourite ring in the ocean, and I was ready to swoop in with a replacement. Then she found her ring again, in the ocean!

Christy: I’m very good at finding things. And I highly recommend getting engaged when you have a super high fever. It makes everything very surreal.

The wedding

Paul: We got married at the Old Mill in Toronto. Honeymooned in Monte Carlo and Rome.

Christy: That makes us sound super fancy! We lucked out and got a Second City corporate gig that took us to Monte Carlo soon after we got married, so we stayed on after the gig. We are also very fancy.

The offspring

Paul: We have one 10-year-old son. We’re still deciding on a name.

Balancing careers and marriage

Paul: We used to balance our careers and marriage by helping each other with auditions and self-tapes. Also, when one person is on set or on tour, the other picks up the slack at home. Now that we’re in the middle of a pandemic, we balance our careers and marriage by not having careers.

Christy: Being with someone who understands the stress and difficulty of being an actor helps when you need some understanding and support. Knowing that there will be times where I’m working more, times when he’s working more, times that neither of us will be working, and times when we will both be working has been something we’ve learned to adapt to. To let the other’s success be a joint success.

Shared interests

Paul: We both like board games! Except Christy doesn’t like super nerdy board games as much as I do. Luckily I have a son who I’ve convinced to play Star Wars games with me.

Christy: Who knew having a child would save you from the boredom of four-hour Star Wars games!

The home

We have lived near Christie Pits in the Bickford Park/Koreatown part of Toronto for 12 years.

Secret of success

Paul: We apply the lessons we’ve learned from life, acting and improv. We listen. We say yes. We support each other. Counselling has helped too.

Christy: I agree, the skills of improv are definitely tools for a good relationship. Learning how to put the other person first sometimes, or at least pausing your agenda to try and understand where the other person is coming from. Laughter is super important too. And yes, therapy!

Improv House Party will stream every Thursday night at 8 p.m., basically until the pandemic is fixed. Any donations will go to The Second City Alumni Fund.

Explore Toronto’s annual photography festival online this year

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Thirza Schaap's Carnival, from the series Plastic Ocean. (Courtesy of the artist)

The Scotiabank Contact Photography Festival usually takes place throughout the month of May in venues across Toronto, but due to the COVID-19 pandemic the festival is adapting this year. As of April 1, the official festival website will present highlights of the full roster of exhibitions originally planned for the 2020 festival.

A message on the website from the Contact staff and board of directors says, “As the global health crisis has rapidly transformed how art is experienced, Toronto’s 24th annual Scotiabank Contact Photography Festival continues to be adapted, day by day, to reflect the challenges of this reality.”

The organizers are using the website to acknowledge the efforts of everyone involved including Canadian and international artists. Normally the lens-based works are presented in a diverse array of exhibits at galleries, public sites and alternative venues across Toronto. Of course, due to the pandemic, these sites are all closed for the foreseeable future.

“We very proudly present all of these initiatives on this website and within the festival’s catalogue,” says the message on the website.

The festival is also hoping that it will be able to unfold the physical exhibitions across the city once public safety is assured and venues reopen over the coming months.

The website features the 28 core exhibitions from both Canadian and international artists, as well as featured exhibitions which focuses on selected lens-based projects. There is also a section for open call exhibitions which are photo-based initiatives that were drawn together from an open call for participation. In total, there are about 150 exhibitions on the website to explore from the comfort of your home, with some works being made available to the public for the first time.

Each featured work also notes the venue name where it will be displayed once permitted by public health protocol, though no dates are listed as that is still unknown.

Artists whose works are featured on the festival website include local artists such as Aaron Jones, Ebti Nabag, Vid Ingelevics and Ryan Walker, and more.

The message on the website concludes with, “This year’s festival is dedicated to all of those in the arts who have been affected by COVID-19. We hope that these challenging and uncertain times will ultimately strengthen society, one that values creativity as a vital part of life experience.”

Barque relaunches takeout and delivery in Toronto

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Roncesvalles Village BBQ joint Barque Smokehouse is relaunching its takeout and delivery program today, with a new focus on make-at-home dishes. Barque had suspended their former takeout and delivery program for several weeks following the COVID-19 outbreak.

Barque co-owner and chef David Neinstein says that after initially shutting down their dining room, the team was overwhelmed with to-go orders. While it sounds like a good problem to have, the Barque team was concerned about whether they were truly practicing social distancing.  

“The restaurant was packed with drivers and guests coming in to pick up food,” says Neinstein. “Our staff and management team became increasingly uncomfortable with an environment that was technically legal, but we all knew very well that this was not what health professionals were recommending.”

Neinstein and his team are now offering a modified delivery and takeout menu that can be executed with just one staff member in the kitchen at a time. The new menu features BBQ staples like brisket, pulled pork, and lamb shoulder, plus salads and sides, all of which are served cold with reheating instructions. “BBQ is rather convenient for this method, so it actually works well,” says Neinstein. 

To further combat crowding in the restaurant, Barque is requesting that orders be made 24 hours in advance so they can manage foot traffic volume. Customers collect their orders via curbside pickup or delivery for a $10 flat rate. 

 

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Although Barque had previously used third-party providers for delivery, they’re taking this new to-go program in house. Orders are placed via phone or email and processed through Square payment systems to minimize contact. Neinstein says that not only does this allow them to save on the added cost of using a third-party provider, but they can put some of their own staff to work making deliveries. 

Like most restaurants around the world, Neinstein and his team had to lay off over 30 employees amid the COVID-19 outbreak.

In addition to the food menu, Barque is selling its signature rubs, seasonings, and sauces for home cooks. Profits from these latter items are being used to help support their staff during the restaurant’s temporary dining room closure. 

Aware that the small cash payments these donations could offer wouldn’t make much of a dent in the Barque team’s day-to-day living expenses, Neinstein is opting to take advantage of the food discounts available to restaurant operators. “We’re going to create essential packages for our staff that they design that will have vegetables and meats and grains and stuff that they would need,” says Neinstein. “Grocery essentials are cheaper for us to buy, but can save them money.”

Neinstein says that the response from the community has been strong, but the future remains uncertain. “The one thing about all this is we don’t know what level of business will be required to necessarily make money,” admits Neinstein. “But this seems like the best thing to do in order to satisfy our needs to keep our staff working and to keep some money coming in.”

For now, the preorders are rolling in. “I live in the neighbourhood myself and we’re getting tons of support,” says Neinstein. “People are saying ‘we need a break from our own cooking and to get non-homemade food once in a while and if you guys can do it, then we’ll support you.’”

Laurie Brown’s Pondercast: Deep thoughts ideal for times of isolation

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Laurie Brown is all about pondering, taking time to reflect and getting us inside our own heads through her podcast, aptly dubbed Pondercast. Seems fitting that hers is one of many insightful programs people will be turning to, not only to help get them through this troubling time, but also to think about what it means: the broader context of where we go from here.

A Toronto native, Brown is a well-known broadcaster with roots that stretch back to the MuchMusic days when it was cool and relevant. Following a stint in journalism with Citytv and others, Brown found her music niche again, this time with CBC Radio where she developed the groundbreaking late-night show The Signal.

Ten years later, Brown had done all she could to shine a light on the moody, obscure and way-off-the-beaten-path tunes, and it was time for a change.

“I really wanted some new challenge, something I hadn’t done before,” Brown says, over the Internet from a tiny British village in which she was holed up waiting out the COVID-19 situation. “I wanted to talk about the kind of thoughts we all have but we usually don’t say out loud,” she says. “Our private fears and anxieties that, when we think them to ourselves, we think, ‘Oh that’s nuts.’ ”

Enter Pondercast. For the show, she partnered with Toronto electronic musician Joshua Van Tassel who creates gorgeous sonic landscapes upon which Brown’s deep thoughts and journeys tread. Ty Johnston handles the design and look of the show.

Pondercast combines deep thoughts, insight and lush soundscapes, as well as music from other artists who fit the mood. It’s insightful, uplifting and just what people need right about now, partly thanks to Brown’s innate curiosity regarding people and their inner monologues.

“You know, it [my curiosity] is a well that has never run dry for me. It’s held me in such good stead in everything I’ve done,” she says. “I wish I knew where it came from, I don’t know but it leads me to all the best, fantastic things in life.”

But she also likes to balance the natural world with science, and that is reflected in the show.

“When I can have one foot firmly planted in the natural world and another in the science world and be the human in between, I think that gives me a picture and a headspace that feels like sanity,” she says. “Particularly in nature, I need to have a big part of my headspace there, which is a zoom-out effect, right, from the little fixations and anxieties. It says, wait a minute, open the barn doors and let us look at the bigger picture, and your anxiety shifts when that happens.”

In our current situation, there is no end to the anxiety, but there is also an opportunity, Brown says to slow down, to rethink and to renew.

“I think this is an unbelievable opportunity. It’s like, do you notice, even on social media, the trivial seems to have fallen away,” she says. “It’s a giant reset moment for people to remember what really is important to them. It’s a huge opportunity. I’m kind of holding my breath. I’m really hopeful there will be major changes in the right direction because of this.”

Learning to worry less in these difficult times

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Parenting columnist Joanne Kates is an expert educator in the areas of conflict mediation, self-esteem and anti-bullying, and she is the director of Camp Arowhon in Algonquin Park.


Two weeks ago I became a grandmother. It’s as exciting and wonderful as I imagined. As they say, if I’d known how much fun being a grandparent is, I’d have done that before I had kids.

Last week, on the day the baby was one week old, Eli, my six-year-old grandniece from Montreal, came to stay with us for three days. Eli was of course excited to meet the baby. You don’t know this about me, but my husband and I sort of share a house with our son and his wife. And new baby. The house is divided into two very separate units.

So here’s Eli. Max, my son, brings the baby downstairs to meet her. Eli sits on the couch and holds the baby. That feels safe. Then Max says it’s time to take Alice upstairs for a feed. Eli says: “I wanna carry her. I can do it.” My first thought is no way. But I stay silent because I’ve been informed that baby Alice is not my kid.

Max lets Eli carry the baby up to the third floor! Unaided!

I can’t believe it. Does he know something I don’t know? Like maybe Eli is a 30-year-old in a six-year-old body?

And then I figure it out: This new generation of parents has seen the bubble wrap, and they’re rejecting it. In thinking about how they want to parent, they’re looking at what we’ve modelled, and they don’t like it. At least not the helicopter part. The part where we try to stand between them and their every booboo or disappointment, where we cushion them from … so much.

I asked him where it came from.

Max said: “I was thinking that, if I let Alice go through her life and I go through my life with Alice worried about any little thing happening to her, then she’s not going to have grit and resilience, and I won’t have grit and resilience when raising her. So I might as well start from the beginning building resilience and building a healthy acceptance of risk. The resilience has to be in me as well — because there obviously is risk here. If Eli had dropped the baby she would have bumped her head. She would have gotten a bruise and cried. I have to know that babies get bumps and bruises, and that’s all right.

“I’m driven by seeing my peers worrying about stuff, things potentially beyond their control, or overwhelmed with worry. Some of my friends avoid doing so many things because they’re worried, and that negatively affects their quality of life. I don’t want that for me or my child.”

Where did he learn this? Certainly not from his mother.

So many of us became champion worrywarts when we bred. We didn’t know any better. But these young people have watched us: ‘tis human to learn from the mistakes of the previous generation. That’s part of how civilization evolves.

They’ve made a conscious decision not to snowplow the path for their kids because they’ve experienced first-hand how high the cost is of putting their life on the video-cam. They’ve felt smothered, they’ve inherited our worries, and too many of them have grown up anxious.

I’m not blaming my generation of parents. I promise. I don’t blame myself. We all did the absolute best we could, every step of the way. But two factors made it hard for us to take a step back from our kids when they might have done better with a little benign neglect. One, we were reacting to how so many of us were parented. So many of our parents had no idea what we were doing, when, how or with whom. We didn’t talk to them about much, and they liked it that way. I didn’t tell my parents anything important about my life and lied to them regularly with no consequences. Their hands-off parenting led to a reaction on our side. And pendulums do swing.

Then there’s the Me Generation phenom. Starting with my generation, humans began to look inside. For the first time in history. Therapy, previously the exclusive province of the privileged mentally ill, became common. Our every feeling became fodder for discourse. Bye-bye stiff upper lip. That change leaked into our parenting as an obsessive need to hear our children’s feelings. As with our fears for their physical safety, we invaded their space to ensure their emotional safety.

My new prescription for parenting, especially for us, is to follow our young folks’ example and go more hands-off. This requires, above all, optimism. In matters both private and communal, we are often called upon to choose between optimism and worry. I am a worrywart. It’s a challenge to choose optimism, and a crucial one. When we telegraph that we believe in them and they can do it, they mostly can.

10 tips to work productively at home

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Working from home is becoming a reality for many, whether you work from home on a full-time basis, or spend the occasional day here or there at your home office. while some may have it down to an art, many of us struggle with productivity at home due to distractions, while others find it difficult to adjust to the new routine (or lack thereof).

As a family-run and family-oriented personal injury law firm, Diamond and Diamond, headed by Jeremy Diamond, offers all their lawyers & support staff the option to work from home. If you are working from home for the first time, or are looking to improve your productivity, consider the follow tips from Diamond & Diamond:

Invest In Great Web Conferencing Services

Right now, getting things done efficiently means that you need the best tools. Your general webinar service may not be equipped to handle the increased demands of a virtual workplace, and your business’s continued efficiency depends on investing in capabilities and tools that sites like Zoom and Google Hangouts offer. Reducing long buffering or echoing and feedback can ensure that each team member is able to effectively communicate with one another.

Dress For Work

It’s tempting to work from home in your PJs, but part of your professionalism is your professional mindset. Wake up at your usual hour, shower and groom yourself like you’re going into the office, and dress for success. Even dressing business casual can help subtly reinforce that you’re working. Plus, if you have a spontaneous video call, you can demonstrate that you’re already prepared to be professional.

Schedule Your Day

Work and personal time can easily blend into one another, and if you’re working from home, it’s easy to get lost in laundry, cleaning and cooking. Set times that you’re “at work” and available to your team and clients, and times that you’re “offline” so that you have time to do personal chores and errands. Fleshing out your to-do list and giving yourself boundaries are other helpful tactics to ensure you are focused and accountable to yourself.

Understand Your Peak Productivity Times

When you’re in the office you may not realize when your prime productivity is. You may do best with challenging tasks in the morning or you may need hours and a lunch break to ramp up. Knowing when you’re the most productive can help you schedule your day for maximum efficiency. There’s no right or wrong, so doing the toughest work at your peak will help you be the best remote employee.

Boundaries

Personal and work time probably already blurs, like checking your work email after dinner or working on a special project on the weekend. Working from home needs to have hard boundaries to keep you productive and prevent you from burning out. It’s a good idea to set yourself a time every day where you “leave the office” to ensure you make space for personal time in your evenings.

Support Your Coworkers

Make sure that you speak honestly with the people you share your home with about your schedule and needs. For example; let your partner or roommate know when you have calls scheduled so that they know to be quiet.

Carve Out an Office Space

Even if you don’t have a home office, creating a dedicated office space, even if it’s a corner of your bedroom, can help you be more focused. Don’t engage in social media while “at work” or have distractions if you can avoid it. Keeping your office space professional can help you focus.

Meal Prep

You already do it right? If you don’t, and you typically eat in restaurants for breakfast or lunch during the workday, consider taking time to prep your meals so you don’t have to waste valuable business time wondering what you’re going to eat. Healthy snacks on hand and managing your meal times can help you preserve a regular schedule.

Work Out

You may not think you have time, but even 20 minutes of exercise each day can boost your mood and can help you focus. Even something as simple as chair yoga or following a YouTube fitness video can help you feel better during hard times.

Good Headphones

Working from one means that you need a good set of headphones with a microphone to hear what your coworkers say and ensure that you’re being heard. These are also essential to cancel out noise in the background and to play ambient music or other noise that helps you concentrate.

About Jeremy Diamond

Jeremy Diamond is a lawyer and member of both Ontario and Florida Bars. Jeremy practices in the area of Plaintiff personal injury litigation. Click here to learn more about Jeremy Diamond.

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